A Belgian husband has spoken of his ‘ho*ror’ after learning his wife of 19 years used to be a man. The duped 64-year-old – named only as of Jan – said he had ‘no clue’ his bride had been born a boy.
The sho*king revelation only emerged after almost two decades of marriage when a cousin from his wife’s native Indonesia finally exp*sed the truth.
Jan told how he met ‘Monica’ in 1993 when she arrived in his home town of Antwerp as an au-pair to his sister’s children.
He described as her ‘very beautiful and feminine’ – but said he now understood why she was ‘no good at ironing’.Jan told Belgium’s Nieuwsblad daily paper: ‘My second marriage was on the rocks at the time and we quickly fell in love.
‘I thought she was an attractive woman, and she was all woman – she had no male tra!ts. ‘She was 27 years old at the time, so I asked her if she wanted children. ‘I was glad when she said she didn’t as I was 44 and already had two of my own.
‘Over the years she said she was taking the pill, and even during love I never noticed anything, though now I understand why she always used a lubr!cant, which is apparently normal among tra*se*uals.‘She was always a good mother to my children, and also a fantastic cook, though we weren’t that great at cleaning and ironing – and now I know why!’ But Jan said the relationship had begun to su*fer over the past two years as she insisted on staying out late on her own wearing ‘very revealing outfits’
He added: ‘She would wear tiny tops that revealed a lot of flesh and had more than 100 pairs of shoes. ‘I also caught her ogl!ng pictures of young men on the Internet.‘But I didn’t su*pect a thing until a cousin of hers came to visit and let something slip.‘I mentioned it to my son and he said he’d heard a rumor too that Monica used to be a man. ‘One evening I confronted her and she finally confessed she had been born a boy and had a gender change operation
‘My world coll-apsed in a few seconds. I feel like have been rough for almost 20 years.’ The couple is still living under the same roof after a judge ref*sed to grant Jan an order to ev!ct her.But he added: ‘We live in separate rooms and rarely speak.What Monica has done to me and my family is unforgivable. I just want her out of my life.’
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